08 August 2008

I Smile For the Camera Submission


The 4th Edition of Smile For The Camera takes its word prompt from the Ace of Hearts. What photograph do you consider "My Favorite Photograph," the one that has won your heart.

Choose a photograph of an ancestor, relative, yourself, or an orphan photograph that is your favorite family photo or that photograph you've collected and wouldn't give up for a King's ransom.

One of my most cherished photographs is this one. Stanley Edmund Beffort, my father. He was born in Salina, Kansas in 1935 to Edmund Robert Beffort (who died 2 weeks after my father) and Myrtle Mae Borgstadter. He passed away in 1988 at the age of 52. Being the eldest child, I was asked to say something about him. I remember waking up the night before the service, horrified that I didn't know anything about him. Not really.

My father was a sales rep for Samsonite Luggage and had a huge territory to cover. He left the house on Monday morning and we didn't see him again until Friday night. I don't remember him ever talking about his life.

About a month later, I received a box in the mail. It was from one of my father's brothers. Inside were photographs of my father from the time he was born until the day I was born.

OMG! My father had been a kid in the olden days! There was a picture of him on a pony, the yearly photos from grade school, etc. But this one is my favorite. I never knew that he was a towhead. He had dark brown hair when I met him. In this photo, he and my oldest son at the same age could be twins.

I now know that my father was not only a Boy Scout but went on to become an Eagle Scout. He graduated from Sacred Heart High School in Salina and went to K State University in Manhattan, Kansas where he met my mother. He belonged to Phi Kappa Fraternity while at college.

There isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss him and wish that I had known him better.

4 comments:

Mark Tucker said...

Sheri,

I love the photo! This is a picture of when he was a Cub Scout. I can tell by the hat and the words over the pocket.

Do you know how old he was in this picture? Today, Cub Scouts are usually between 7-11 years old. You might be able to do some research or contact BSA to see what age range Cub Scouts were in his era.

By the way, the picture needs to be flipped as the words over the pocket are backwards.

wendy said...

Sheri - It's great that you received the box of photos. It's sort of amazing when we see pictures of our parents as children and babies!

Terry Thornton said...

SHERI,
In my opinion, your picture of your dad is the best family photo shown in this carnival. Thanks for posting this absolutely wonderful photo of Stanley, the Cub Scout. I hope all your readers will click the photo to enlarge the image and enjoy with you this tribute to your dad. Thanks.

TERRY THORNTON
HILL COUNTRY OF MONROE COUNTY MISSISSIPPI

Amy McDaniel said...

What a penetrating gaze! It makes me wonder what he was thinking.

Great photo.